I did this for you ...................!!!

Hie all !!!

Sometimes I feel like why to write my thoughts out,,, who is bothered about them. People read and then every thought is vanished. Some will judge things but then in my last blog I was surprised to see that I got 64 views , if you talk about number is not much but is far more than I ever expect. So, may be, there are people who read what I write and say Yes! I know this feeling or Yes I understand that.

Our life has a magical way of being a teacher. We learn something then we unlearn then life makes sure we learn it again. Here is a new lesson which I learned recently which is Be independent to the extent you can be. This is something I will pass on to my next generation.

My father has always emphasized on rowing your own boat. While I was growing up he always make sure that me and my brother does everything by ourselves. We do everything by our own minds and by our own hands. He is always against being dependent on anyone. 

I am truly thankful to him for this lesson he has taught us. Being independent not just financially but emotionally, physically etc. is very important. I would not say its easy, it is very tough but its worth it. 

I am not saying don't take help from people around. Do take help whenever required but don't get into habit of doing it.

I don't want to hear people saying loudly to me , " I did this for you !!! or You know I had gone through so much to do this for you !!!

I don't want to hear that. I am not on this path fully but Yes I am trying ....

Cheers !!!!