You don't look married ...

 Hie! everyone

I really don't know who are my readers but at least this is one thing which I do for myself i.e. writing my thoughts out. Its okay even if no one reads it but yes I can read it someday when I get older.

I miss writing as writing gives so much shape to my thoughts and shaping your thoughts is so important. Body and mind alignment is super important. Everyone has their own way so mine is talking and writing. Now for talking I may need ears which is not in my control so lets keep on doing something which is in my control.

Excuse me if my blogs are more about marriage or couple now as I have entered into this institution lately so I have so many thoughts around it.

I have a very interesting thing to share about marriage which I got to know once I got married which is that you need to look married after getting married. Being married is not enough. You need to look like you are married to a guy who actually looks the same as before but a girl needs to look married.

I went to my city recently Ludhiana and I went to a shop near by where I met an old aunty I knew. I was wearing my normal nights suit and was normal and that aunty told me Beta kuch toh kara karo aisa thodi ab aapki shaadi ho gayi hai. Seriously I was like okay.

I don't understand why we give so much importance or value to this particular relationship. Girls have been daughter or sisters or masi before but they don't have to look like one then why suddenly after marriage you need to look like someone wife. Husband knows she is my wife and wife knows that he is my husband. So why to look like each other properties.

I am not against all mangalsutra and sindoor thing. I adore these enhancers of beauty but its not my obligation. Do it if you like it but not to look like bahu or wife.

Do let me know newly weds your thoughts on this. Comment below.

Till then Bye

See you next time

Aashna Taneja