Over Share

Hello! 

People ….. 

I really don't know who are these people I say hello to but I always am hopeful thinking that some people will read it. I used to write very consistently but then I got busy with other things including getting married but I realized you come back to what you love. So I wanted to write from so long but after my marriage I started to think that people will judge me or my married life or whatever I put in front of them for judgement. 

Then I realized that it is fine let them judge or whatever this can't stop me from doing what I love doing the most deep conservations through writing or teaching. Although my husband dislike this quality of me a lot talking deep all the time but that I guess this is the trade mark of true scorpion. 

Well I am going to keep posting my new learnings, my feelings or any of my opinion here. If you like or resonate with it then that is great and if not then its fine.

Talking about the topic or title I wanted to talk about never over share. I learned this lesson later on that over sharing your personal emotional stuff is not a good idea. Its like opening window to people to peep into and pass judgements on your very emotional personal stuff. No matter how much non judgmental a person is but they will definitely think about it or comment on it. When you share your stories or anything sometimes you expect other person to completely feel what you feel about that and that is never going to happen. No two individuals are same. Everyone think about the same incident differently. Watching a biography will not make you feel like that person about whom the biography is completely it will just give you an idea of the life of that person.

So just don't keep that mouth open and keep sharing your personal stuff or feelings with everyone. That's not how it works. Keep something for yourself, in your little corner of heart which is just purely yours. A feeling which has made you who you are today. Keep that with you so that in a dark night you can sometimes touch it and hug that person who has gone though it all. This will make you proud of your struggles or pain.

Do  not take me wrong here, I am not saying to not share instead I am saying do not over share. 

Keep something in you only for you.

Thank you for reading!

Will keep posting.

Aashna Taneja