From frocks to dresses, from a girl to a woman!

You go through various transitions in life. As a woman, I feel that these transitions are beautiful. You feel it in your body then certainly within your heart. I realize that being a woman can be about sensitivity, emotions\ and being a little over the top about everything.

All the phases of my life have taught me a lot and I have enjoyed them all. 

But the one I am experiencing right now has made me realize that I have become a woman and I am not that girly girl anymore. It makes me feel closer to myself, I naturally feel it to my core.

You keep realizing things with time, actually almost every single day of your life, and it comes out of pure introspection a dialogue with your own self.

The external world and your external lessons can't teach you everything until you learn something through sheer contemplation through comprehending your own thoughts.

As a teenager transforming from a kid was a serious transition. Your thoughts naturally change, your body changes, your opinion about certain things changes, and eventually you become a whole new person. 

You are not a kid sitting somewhere in the corner like a cartoon character with your legs swinging in different directions you start sitting like a girl who is a celebrity with a touch of rebel just ready for her interview.  

A Change happens when you buy your first transparent lip balm instead of vaseline and then you get into colored lip balms. 

Amidst all, you get into college then jobs.  The first day of college, first presentation, the first interview, and yes your own first credit to your bank account, mine was swiping my own debit card for the first time.

These things become your own little bundle of happiness, the moments that you cherish, these are very small things for others to understand even if they try to.

Then your first times change to your usual and you forget what they meant. You want to achieve more, Once those things gave you a sense of achievement, you want more for yourself and you realize that people are achieving way more than you. You urfcoz have to keep going and digest the fact that there is always more to life no matter what you achieve.

We say experiences teach us, we grow. True! but there is a sense of natural growth as well which happens organically, It's like your age. Age is not just a number when you have lived 48 years of your life you cant compare it to somebody who is 30 years old. With age, you learn a lot about yourself which has nothing to do with experiences just like you develop taste within time

I realized that I am 26 and I have transformed into a woman. It happened because I am beginning to realize that I represent the  MAN that I am dating and my own relationship that I am the face of it. 

It happened when I started cleaning the kitchen after cooking a meal and it also happened when I know where my mother keeps harpik and hit. You start taking responsibility. Your wardrobe changes its colors and your set of dressing.  

The transformations a woman feels throughout her life are beautiful and let them take place naturally. It's not necessary that growth requires struggle or hardships, some things happen just with time and love.

Amidst all of this, don't forget to be the drama queen that you are because you are what you were as a child. Keep that alive.

Out of all the phases till now I love the feeling of being a woman, a lady who belongs to someone.