How are You ?

I want to start with a question that regularly in spite of all the questions we answer or we ask, HOW ARE YOU ? is one which we ask a dozen of times to dozen of people in a day. Its been twenty-five years I am here in this world and maybe from the last 15 years I am asking the same question to uncountable humans and ironically I have never got the replies other than I am fine, I am good, I am great.

Here I can bet more than 50 percent of times we are replying with a lie because we don't know that the person asking does care that much or we have not even thought about any other way of answering this question

That is our way of life also, we are doing things for the heck of it and I am including myself into that too. We are not thinking we are just doing a lot of activities because either we have seen people doing that from ages or either we are told that this how we live.

Lately, lot of experiences have taught me that no matter what, at what authority you are at and no matter what are your motives and regardless of wherever you are, if you are asking anyone a question How are You? then mean it and stand by the real word which is How that person is ? there is a chain of stories behind every lovely human out there. You may never know that to whom you are shouting at your highest vocal may have gone through a bundle of sacrifices to reach there.

So just little bit of kindness and compassion will not harm you, already there are many people out there who make our life miserable, so don't be another one.

Being a little kind to people out there or being a little soft-spoken will not make your pride or authority in danger, in fact, it will work otherwise.

Have some kindness and compassion, let us all be humans and not someone who talks business all the time.

Else your choice and your life but next time when you ask How are you? mean it, otherwise, don't ask.