I can Explain .......

I have always wondered that after doing what you should not do or after hurting someone. Can you explain things? Can you fill that hole back which you have pricked in someone's heart. ?

This blog is not actually any hack but a question or open end thing I want to ask people around.
 Our whole life is about sorry and explanation sometimes.

It's okay! we can definitely forgive someone but can we do that by heart, is it possible that explanations can heal.

I can't enroll myself in this vicious circle of talking much, then to say things which should not have been said, then saying sorry and then keep explaining

I am so tired and done with that. In the pursuit of not hurting anyone or taking care of each one, I always end up hurting my own self and ignoring me.

There is this very nice quote which always stays with me from the time I have read it, " People are always going to hurt, it's just you have to choose worth suffering for"

There have been various instances in my life in which I have considered people, led them into my life, have concerns about them and done every possible thing to avoid hurting them in any way and then always I end up hurting.

So the best home remedies to avoid that is there can be a few things which I try to incorporate :

1. Talk Less - It always helps, talk very less. There is no need to say everything. Silence has its own meaning, it's okay if people understood and if they don't deserve to get understood through words even. Also, it gives an intellectual look

2. Stay away from people - the Best thing is this, I guess stay away from people. I don't know it may sound harsh, but it's fine and best to be with yourself. People make life so complicated and attachments make it worse.

See you Next Sunday ....!

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