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First of all, apologies for a delayed blog but it worked in my favor as I get a worthy topic to write for in that while. My all topics are from experiences around me and this is also one of them.

I don't know what you all have guessed from the heading but let me disclose it.

IT ALWAYS HURTS 

One very important lesson I have learned in my whatever years I have lived that Its always going to hurt, you can never outgrow pain, you can just be familiar with it.

No matter what, but things are going to hurt eventually regardless of whether its a small activity or a big one. We all are human and sensitive, we can never get away with that.

A heartbreak no matter if its a third one but it still hurts, a fight with boyfriend no matter the twentieth but will still hurt and a canceled plan no matter a daily thing but will hurt.

So the hack for this is,  to accept that, Simple! Just Accepting feelings sometimes can make things work. Accept your hurt and then let it go. Just don't spoil your mood for that short span of time. Say its Okay and let the regular course going. Do not Ignore but do not hold it also

Here I want to quote one of a favorite book, Fault in our Stars by John Green which goes as, " Pain Demands to be Felt "

So understand that yes it is going to hurt no matter what, a canceled plan, a rejection, a bad day, crushed expectations, a bad behavior and whatever other things come to your mind. It will hurt and it will continue in your 60;s too. You can never learn the art of Not hurting, believe me if you are human-made of heart you can never.

I can just tell you a better way to deal with it. Laugh at the recurrence of the incident, feel that tears for a while. Express to that person in a most polite manner and if that person wants to, let him apologize. Then just let it stay and go by itself. It here means Hurt/pain. 

Believe me, It will go eventually. Time heals everything.

I know this blog reminds you of various incidents of your life through which you have made a close encounter with the pain.

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