Can you do me favor ?
Has it ever happened that after a long while a long lost friend calls you? Your phone rings and you get totally surprised on their call. You feel special that yes they have missed you.
You pick up the call in utmost happiness and ask how are you? then they immediately after saying I am fine just ask one thing Hey! can you do me a favor?
There your heart gets into pieces. This is just a small example of how people only get to you just to take favors.
Recently an instance happened which made me felt that are these the same people which a little time back when they needed me were all around me but now don't even feel a need to share things.
This is a small example but on a consistent basis sometimes we get hurt by such little actions of people. When this happens repeatedly we tend to ignore this but its a reality and not just me we all go through it.
As I was thinking I thought of no escape from this but reality that favor is the only reason when someone reminds of you.
We have become a careless and practical people that we are just working, we want to make money. I am not saying that I don't do it, this has become so casual for us and also it hurts us all that we are just remembered by someone when they need a favor.
I have now taken a resolution that just talk to people when you feel like. Meet people without any reason, ask their well being without any reason.
Start saying NO! One should help people for sure. But keep a self - respect and let people not call you only when THEY NEED A FAVOR?
These are the calls you hate a lot more than even Jio calls reminding you to charge.
I hardly know whether this blog was worth writing. This is just an exertion out of personal experience.
I just want to tell we all are not here just for getting professional, we are here for much more.
Having no reason to be with people around is important.
Call for no reason, smile for no reason, host someone for no reason.
And complain less that People only remind you for a favor.
Last I want to say Please do me a favor? that don't be such favorable for people.
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