HOW TO LIVE A EASY LIFE ?
Living a life is never easy. Its tough and tougher each day, and you keep growing, keep learning and keep changing. Pain makes you change, hurt makes you stronger and happiness makes you lovely.💌
Life 💌would have been definitely easier if we dont have to deal with people but isolation is never a solution but in fact, it's more like quitting.
People, friends all are causes of both our pain and also our happiness. So just be with them and sooner or later things would be fine.
Sometimes we look at someone and see how that person is so wanted. So these points are grasped from them only.⭐
But still, as you grow up certain lessons are learned which are magical at least for me. Lessons are learned in different situations, lessons learned the hard way.
Here I am not being a life coach or guide. Just sharing and penning down some bitter lessons and some amazing ones which have made things easier for me at least.
Let's get started.
Learn to be on your own
Let me put it straight out that if you dont like your own company or you have problems with your own self then why you expect others to have fun with you. ⭐When nobody ends up being with you get hurt.💔 So here acknowledge yourself and take a pause. Love yourself! I know its cliche but yes do it. Find positives of you, find your flaws. Pamper yourself and just present yourself the best.
Lower down your bar of expectations
Dont expect much. I know it's tough and very regular advice. But here it goes just recall what did you expected from yourself for just today and did you fulfill everything?. I know 90% will say NO! and rest 10% I am sure will be lying. LoL. So just lower your expectation and then the magic ⭐ goes here that if expectation did not fulfill you were prepared and if it did then congo it will make you happier.
Say Thank you Often
Not that you have to go to everyone and say thank you. Just be calm and appreciate what you have. Keep thanking almighty for everything you should be thankful of. Do this and definitely something about you will automatically change and that will be positive.🙋
Ignorance is a bliss
Yes, it is! It's very hard true but the best thing. You don't have to burn your energy on everything. Daily there will be hundreds of things that will affect you and hurt you.
💟But you can ignore some to maintain your peace of mind. Not everything demands your reaction.
Don't hesitate for the first move
I know its tough and I completely suck at it. But its the best learning you can learn. You want to talk, go to the person and talk. You want to share feelings, do it and dont expect anything. Wanna hitch to a long lost friend, want to say sorry, want to make a plan. Do it. 💖The balance lies here that when it's only you then you can urfcoz wait and let the other person take the lead sometimes. If not then you can keep distance.
Say clear and be straightforward
Say things out straightforward. Don't let you and the other person roam in circles. Just say it out and be fine. You want to say No then say it and its okay to say NO. Be straightforward as it will save your energy and time.
Live life one day at a time
Forget the past and just carry the lessons. Don't bother about the future. You can just visualize it and not control. So just be thankful for this one day you have. Spent this day at your best and just consume it in the best way you can.💖
Be kind to your own self
You don't have to give everyone what they need from you and then losing everything you have. Keep going for yourself. 💖Be kinder to people but dont forget yourself in the process. Take out time for you, forgive yourself and accept yourself.
These are my golden rules and I know its easy said than done always. I am trying and I hope you all can try too.
Stay calm and Stay you.💗
Leave any feedback in the comments below.
Follow purppleheart💜 if you like it and its free.
Life 💌would have been definitely easier if we dont have to deal with people but isolation is never a solution but in fact, it's more like quitting.
People, friends all are causes of both our pain and also our happiness. So just be with them and sooner or later things would be fine.
Sometimes we look at someone and see how that person is so wanted. So these points are grasped from them only.⭐
But still, as you grow up certain lessons are learned which are magical at least for me. Lessons are learned in different situations, lessons learned the hard way.
Here I am not being a life coach or guide. Just sharing and penning down some bitter lessons and some amazing ones which have made things easier for me at least.
Let's get started.
Learn to be on your own
Let me put it straight out that if you dont like your own company or you have problems with your own self then why you expect others to have fun with you. ⭐When nobody ends up being with you get hurt.💔 So here acknowledge yourself and take a pause. Love yourself! I know its cliche but yes do it. Find positives of you, find your flaws. Pamper yourself and just present yourself the best.
Lower down your bar of expectations
Dont expect much. I know it's tough and very regular advice. But here it goes just recall what did you expected from yourself for just today and did you fulfill everything?. I know 90% will say NO! and rest 10% I am sure will be lying. LoL. So just lower your expectation and then the magic ⭐ goes here that if expectation did not fulfill you were prepared and if it did then congo it will make you happier.
Say Thank you Often
Not that you have to go to everyone and say thank you. Just be calm and appreciate what you have. Keep thanking almighty for everything you should be thankful of. Do this and definitely something about you will automatically change and that will be positive.🙋
Ignorance is a bliss
Yes, it is! It's very hard true but the best thing. You don't have to burn your energy on everything. Daily there will be hundreds of things that will affect you and hurt you.
💟But you can ignore some to maintain your peace of mind. Not everything demands your reaction.
Don't hesitate for the first move
I know its tough and I completely suck at it. But its the best learning you can learn. You want to talk, go to the person and talk. You want to share feelings, do it and dont expect anything. Wanna hitch to a long lost friend, want to say sorry, want to make a plan. Do it. 💖The balance lies here that when it's only you then you can urfcoz wait and let the other person take the lead sometimes. If not then you can keep distance.
Say clear and be straightforward
Say things out straightforward. Don't let you and the other person roam in circles. Just say it out and be fine. You want to say No then say it and its okay to say NO. Be straightforward as it will save your energy and time.
Live life one day at a time
Forget the past and just carry the lessons. Don't bother about the future. You can just visualize it and not control. So just be thankful for this one day you have. Spent this day at your best and just consume it in the best way you can.💖
Be kind to your own self
You don't have to give everyone what they need from you and then losing everything you have. Keep going for yourself. 💖Be kinder to people but dont forget yourself in the process. Take out time for you, forgive yourself and accept yourself.
These are my golden rules and I know its easy said than done always. I am trying and I hope you all can try too.
Stay calm and Stay you.💗
Leave any feedback in the comments below.
Follow purppleheart💜 if you like it and its free.
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