REASONS WHY YOU GET SO COMPLAINTS AND TAUNTS

Well, this blog is out of my personal experience but, maybe, you all can get some relevance. Let me know in comments. 

In our lives, I consider some things such as 💛family, love, friends and work very important. There are some other (please let me know any other in comments below) also.

There are certain things we all are pushed to do for which, maybe, we get complaints or we get taunts. But we all have got so comfortable with that, now it’s very gross plus little hard to change. Well, I here did these things with a purpose.

💞Also, here I justify the title to my blog that guys, girlies and some random people who get complains or who complain others of these following things and label unemotional or not that sensitive. 

Let me tell you we do that because we have to or there could be completely different stories to these attitudes. There are certain reasons which make most of us do that. Mind here most of us.

Busy! And busy!

Why I get most of the complaints because I am sometimes too busy, here I would like to mention that  I am unemployed. I am so busy and to be very honest it really took me long to do that. This was not build; I build it because I have to. 😠I was this very free, lazy girl with some friends, who was available to everyone all the time. A single call and I would reach in a minute but then gradually friends stop asking they just called to let me know where I should reach. I was taken for granted, late phone calls and text replies hurt me and boom I was alone.

Here a very important note, do not complain (just personal thing not for all)  just don’t because I have felt its only me who end up explaining my complaint and feeling guilty, as I realize everybody is so nice plus it’s never intentional (why would it be) friends actually never hurt you intentionally.💜

So I start keeping myself busy to distract and here I was to the point where I need to take time out and I don’t have time. But then and now its working fine for me. 🐣

I don’t care

Maybe that’s true, I don’t care. I don’t feel that for myself but yea many people have said to me that, actually my friends. I don’t know If I do or not. More than the care I do the effort,  that, I know for sure. Maybe I don’t express or I don’t show but sometimes I am too much hurt to even care. Bravo! I am good at ignoring or pretending may be. They all could be right because I know the more you care the more people feel that you are cheezy.  I used to care much earlier but I got influenced by many people around me that were so cool and always kept saying 👃Don’t think or don’t think much and I kept hearing one of these today also and believe me they are doing good so I catch up that which keeps me going with the fact that I don’t care, because I have too. But I know inside I care too hard with the actions that I say too less with my mouth.

I don’t share

I don’t, I try to but it’s a circle, every time I do I feel I shouldn’t. The reason is not that people will judge that’s okay that is fine if you murder someone and expect people not to judge you as you have put up with a very emotional story then that is bullshit. So feel free to judge me that’s very fine. I hate doing that because I hate listening to that one dialogue everytime I do share something to anyone which is “OH PLEASE DON’T THINK SO MUCH, LEAVE OR YOU ARE OVERTHINKING. So I stopped sharing and in that maybe I am supposed to be cool. This shit Works for me sometimes💝

So here is a lot about me which is not liked by people but that is fine because at the end of the day I know that I am doing the best possible at every situation I can otherwise I ask for apologies. Let me know in comments below if you have faced something similar. I am doing good and I keep improving, there are certain amazing things too which I learned and want to share which I will share in my next blog.🤔

If you want to tell things to your friends please share and let your dear ones know.

Stay you and stay strong.🌟

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